分手后你做的第一件事是什么

I drove through some beautiful, winding roads. I drove for over two hours, sometimes crying, but Mostly feeling a sense of relief and anticipation for the next chapter of my life.

我开着车穿过一些美丽而又蜿蜒的公路。我开了两个小时，时不时哭一会，但是其中大部分时候我为自己的接下去的人生感到一种宽慰和期待。

Accepted that she is never coming back.

接受她不会再回来这一事实。

But it was not easy. If you want to relieve yourself of all the pain, you have to understand it won't happen overnight. It's a process. You have invested months and years into this relationship, so the cleansing process will take time.

但这并不容易。如果你想缓解你所有的伤痛，你不得不承认这不是一夜之间就能够做到的，这需要一个过程。你在这段关系中投入了大量的时间，所以疗伤过程也需要时间。

I washed every piece of cloth in my house.

我洗了家里的每件衣服。

1. I read and watched plenty of inspiring and motivational things on the Internet.

在网上大喝鸡汤。

2. Spend time with my family.

和家人呆在一起。

3. Strive to become a better person.

努力成为更好的人。

4. Talked to people who were older and much more experienced than I.

和长者以及那些比我更富有经验的人聊天。

5. Moved out of my comfort zone.

走出自己的舒适区。

I did the most stereotypical thing a guy could do. I went hard in the gym.

我做来一件对于男生来说最老掉牙的事，去健身房大练特练。