四大迹象表明你的丈夫对你们的情感关系百分百满意
You know your husband is dedicated to you and your family-he works hard, plays ball in the backyard and generally treats you great-but you can't help but wonder if he's really, truly happy in your marriage.
你知道你的丈夫对你和家人都十分投入--他工作努力、在后院踢球、总体上来说对你也很好--但你还是会忍不住想要知道他在你们的婚姻关系中是否真的很快乐。Now check out these secret behaviors that signal the both of you are happy as clams.
现在让我们来看看这些隐藏的、暗示着你们俩都非常快乐的行为。1. He still remembers to thank you for taking care of the laundry.
1. 他仍然会对你负责洗衣服这件事表示感谢。
Cause Lord knows if you left separating the whites and darks up to him, there'd likely be a few batches of clothes ruined. But he doesn't take it for granted, nor is he shy about voicing that appreciation. "It says more than just gratitude, it shows respect," says Megan Bearce, sex and relationship expert. "It's easy to forget, but taking the time to give a little praise goes a long way toward strengthening the relationship."
因为老天爷知道：如果你把区分黑白衣服这件事交付给他，那么这些衣服就会被毁了。但他既不会认为你洗衣服是件理所当然的事，也不会羞于表达他对你的感谢。"这不仅仅表现了他对你的感谢，还表示了他对你的尊重，" Megan Bearce说道。她是性情感专家。"人们很容易就会忽略这件事，但是花时间表扬自己的老婆会大大加强你们的关系。"
2. When the in-laws visit, he doesn't put all the planning on your plate.
2. 当岳父岳母来访时，他不会让你一个人忙前忙后。Your guy works with you to find good deals for family-friendly activities, will defend you when his mom makes subtle jabs, and definitely buys the right amount of lemons needed for dinner (a lesson he learned from The Breakup, obviously).
如果你的丈夫愿意帮助你，并觉得家庭活动十分有趣，那么当你和他妈妈拌嘴时，他会站在你这一边，而且一定会买到晚餐所需要的正确柠檬数量（显然，他是从《分手男女》这部电影中学会的）。3. He doesn't bring up the one awful thing you did ten years ago in the middle of an argument.
3. 争吵时，他不会提及你多年前做过的糟糕之事。All couples fight, but if you and your husband make a point to avoid degrading remarks, and do your best not to place blame, then it's clear you both value each other's opinion and needs. "Even when the going gets rough, he's willing to share the burden and work as a team with you," says Dr. Kat.
所有的夫妻都会争吵，但如果你和你的丈夫坚决不说一些侮辱人格的话语、并尽力不去指责对方，那么很显然你们俩都尊重彼此的意见和需要。"即使很艰难，他也愿意与你分享他的负担，跟你一起努力。"凯特医生说道。4. Locker room talk about you isn't negative.
4. 他与伙伴们谈及你时，不会说你坏话A man needs to vent too, and if he's unhappy in a relationship he won't hold back on vocalizing how much you nag him. But if your husband knows he's got a good thing, he won't be joining in these group conversations. "A man who is happy in his marriage will do his best to turn the conversation to something else, or will say something complimentary or vague instead of something that sheds you in a negative light," says Dr. Kat.
男人也需要发泄，但如果他对你们的感情状况不满意的话，他并不会阻止你对他唠唠叨叨。但如果有件好事，他也不会加入到这些团体对话中。"婚姻中幸福的男性会尽力岔开话题，他不会说你不好，相反他可能会说一些赞颂你亦或是含糊其辞的话语，"凯特医生说道。
