男人想与你调情时的十种明显征兆

Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.

曾否心里嘀咕过，那位不错的男人，是不是在向你调情吗？有些行之有效的方式，可让你知道，那男人是否对你感冒。虽然，要读懂肢体语言，偶尔会有点难，但是，如果清楚何处去着手，读懂肢体语言是做得到的。男人会无意识地，甚至是有意识地让你明白，他们喜欢你，以下是他们这样做的十种方式。读一读，看看能学到点什么，或许你马上就能找到心头之爱。

1. Lovely smile

1. 面露可爱笑容

A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.

对你面露可爱的笑容，实际上是个不错的征兆，论到调情，面露可爱笑容的调情，是最为确切的信号之一，表明他对你感冒了。假如注意到，他在对你笑脸相迎，那他喜欢你，想和你接触的几率就很大。或许他会面露羞涩，这样的话，为什么不可以先接近他，显示你的信心和勇气呢？如果你喜欢他，当然可以这样做。主动接近一位男士，毕竟也不是什么值得羞愧的事。就这样做，对他回报笑容，主动挑起话题。不要营造不易得手的气氛，这样做，是可以促使男人更加主动，但往往会让他骤失兴趣。

2. Shy blush

2. 突然脸红

Perhaps you know how it’s difficult to flirt with shy guys, but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control and if he blushes around you, he certainly likes you.

也许你清楚，与害羞的男士调情有多困难，但这并不就是说，你应该避开这类男士。假如见到身边的男士突然脸红起来，这是个最明显的信号，他想要与你调情。但是，不仅怕羞的男士会脸红，实际上任何男士见到美女都会脸红。脸红是人们不能控制的一种身体功能，假如你身旁的男士突然脸红，他肯定是喜欢你这个人。

3. Eye contact

3. 目光对视

This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and we need to use this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting, right? It’s the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might also flirt with you, he is just a bit shy.

这类信号稍稍有点难把握，但绝对值得关注。在与人交流时，目光对视很重要，需要尽可能多地运用此类肢体语言。一位男士是否喜欢你，取决于他与你目光对视的时间长短。假如这位男士与你目光对视的时间，比一般人都要长，也许这是个信号，表示他对你有兴趣。我们与人调情时，都会目视对方，是吧？男人也这样做。如果目视你时没花很长时间，这男人或许也是在和你调情，只是他当时有点害羞。

4. Mirroring

4. 跟随反应

Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this too.

有时候男士肢体会下意识地跟随女士的动作。肢体跟随反应是另一信号，表明他在和你调情。这些动作不一，有时是跟随你的眨眼动作，有时是跟随你的说话口气。举个列子，你在大笑，他就跟着大笑。原因是，对喜欢的事，我们会很自然对其产生镜像反映。另外，许多单身约会网站都指点男士，在与姑娘调情时，要运用镜像反映技巧。或许你迷恋的人，也是有样学样。

5. Hands on hips

5. 双手放在两侧

If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to show you he is a confident man and simply true macho. I personally don’t like when guys use this way while flirting with girls, but still it’s one of the signs he is flirting with you.

假如男士站立时，双手放在两侧，或是双手大拇指卡在腰带环里，这时也许他对你感兴趣。这样做是想告诉你，他有自信，他绝对是个大男人。就我个人来说，与姑娘调情时，男士采取这样的方式，我不大喜欢。尽管如此，这仍是男士与你调情的征兆之一。

6. A flirting touch

6. 调情式的触碰

If your crush touches you, it’s definitely a sign he likes you. But, when a guy touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means the guy is trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt back! Most girls ignore this important sign, but you shouldn’t do it. After all, he might be your hubby!

假如你迷恋的男士触碰你，很肯定，这是发出喜欢你的信号。但是，如果男士偶尔碰你一下，这绝对是你要留意的另一个信号。这表示这位男士想引起你的注意，想找借口与你继续交谈。你喜欢他吗？假如是的话，回赠一个调情信号！大部分姑娘都忽略了这种重要信号，但你不应该这样疏忽。说不上最终他会是你的丈夫！

7. Head Tilts

7. 头部倾斜

The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes you. If he tilts the head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to each word you say. This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking about and he’s really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing feeling when a man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if I’m not interested in that man.

男人倾斜着头部也是喜欢你的信号。如果倾向你，就意味着很留意你说的每句话。也意味着他是在真正回应你说的话。男人在倾听我说话，我喜欢这种十分美好的感觉，一直都很喜欢，即便我对那个男士不感冒。

8. Dilated pupils

8. 两眼瞳孔放大

Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to. When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the eyes of the guy keep dilating, it’s one of the most obvious signs he adores you and is highly interested in you.

虽然不情愿，但是有时候自己的眼睛会出卖自己。当被某人或某物吸引时，我们的瞳孔会放大，当不喜欢某人或某物时，我们的瞳孔会缩小。假如你注意到，那个男士的瞳孔一直处于放大状态。这是最明显的信号，表示他迷恋你，而且对你非常感冒。

9. Raised eyebrows

9. 扬起眉毛

You crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is definite sign he is flirting with you. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!

因喜欢你的缘故，你迷恋的人在你身旁时，也许会眯起眼睛。也会眉毛稍稍上扬。假如你在说话时，他的双眼拉扁了，眉毛保持上扬状态。这是个很确切的信号，他在和你调情。假如你留意，你肯定能见到这种情况。

10. Fidgeting

10. 局促不安

Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? I’m pretty sure you do and it’s okay. You are just nervous and it’s actually a good nervous. It’s all about expectation since you don’t know whether or not he is interested in you. If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with you.

假如你喜欢身旁的男士，你会局促不安吗？我敢说，你会的，不过这没事。你只是感到紧张，其实这是种良性的紧张。是你担心结局的好坏，因为你不清楚他喜不喜欢你。如果是他局促不安，这是因为他喜欢你，想挑起话头，又感到有点紧张。

Now that you’re aware of the signs he is flirting with you, what are you waiting for? Start flirting back and maybe you will have a nice date tonight. Do you know any other signs of flirting that I should have added to this list?

现在你们都知道，男士想要和你调情时，会发出什么信号了，还要等什么呢？行动起来，投桃报李，或许今晚就能享受一次不错的约会。关于调情的信号，除了了这十种，还有我该说的而没说的吗？