In Chinese old days, people’s marriage were decided by their parents, so Most couples haven’t met before they got married, as the development of the society, people ask for their freedom and rights to choose their lovers. So today, people can choose their own lovers at their wills, but the divorce rate is increasing every year. More and more young couples get married very quickly, they believe in strong feelings and want to be together forever, as the time goes by, their conflicts can’t reconcile, so they have to end their marriage. In my opinion, marriage is not a joke, people need to get to know each other well before they marry. Lightning marriage is not a good choice, because it needs time to get to know others, to see whether the two people are suitable to live together. They should think twice before act. 在旧中国，人们的婚姻是由他们的父母决定的，因此大多数夫妻在结婚前都没有见过面，随着社会的发展，人们要求有自由和权利去选择他们的伴侣。因此今天，人们可以由自己的意愿去选择他们的另一半，但是离婚率却逐年在增长。越来越多的情侣快速结婚，他们相信强烈的感觉，想要永远在一起，随着时间的流逝，他们的矛盾无法协调，所以选择去结束婚姻。在我看来，婚姻不是玩笑，人们需要在结婚前彼此相互了解。闪婚不是一个好的选择，因为了解一个人是需要时间的，去看看两个人是否合适住在一起。人们应该三思而熟虑。
