盘点处理异地恋的10大妙招(下)

k In Once or Twice a Day

8.一天一次或者两次互相问候

For us, this usually meant a text to say good morning and a text at night to say goodnight and that we loved each other.

对我们而言，通常指的是起床时的早安和睡前的晚安以及我爱你的一条信息。

It was a cute reminder each day of why we were working through the distance. It wasn't time consuming, but it meant so much.

这是每天爱的提醒，是帮助我们克服距离的解药。这并不是浪费时间，但是真的意义非凡。

to visit Each Other

9.想办法去见他（她）

The one good thing about being in different locations is having somewhere to visit - and it makes visiting extra special.

异地的好处之一就是有一个旅游地，这也让旅行变得意义非凡。

Traveling and finding time to travel can be difficult, but if you can sneak in little trips every once in awhile it is worth it.

旅行本身以及挤出时间去很困难，但如果你能时不时来一段这样说走就走的旅行，所有的困难都是值得的。

While we were doing long distance, we saw each other about 4 or 5 times a year.

我俩在异地恋的时候，每年会见4到5次。

an End Date in Mind

10.心中有一个结束的日期

While I know this may not always be possible, having an end goal will help you get through the time.

我知道这不太现实，但是心中有一个期望会有助于你渡过这段时间。

When we had six months left, I started a countdown because I was so excited. And once that date was on the calendar, it made the rest of the time much easier.

当我们还剩下6个月时间的时候，我开始倒计时，因为我太兴奋了。而且一旦这个日期标记在日历上，剩下来的时间都相对容易很多。

If you are in a long distance relationship, I wish you the best of luck.

如果你正处于异地恋中，祝你好运。

I know first hand how awful it can be — but I would do it over again if I had to.

异地恋的可怕我是感同身受的--但如果让我再次选择我还是会做出同样的决定。