爱情小贴士:如何判断他是否真的爱上你了?
“爱我、不爱我”的游戏别玩啦，扯掉再多花瓣也无法知道他是不是真的爱你。但如果你真的掌握以下四点，他的心你也就能读懂了！姐妹们一定不能错过哦！
Have you noticed any slight changes in your man's behavior? Does he say things he has never said before? Well, maybe it's because he loves you!
有没有留意到你看上的他有任何行为变化呢？他有没有说过什么从没说过的话？如果有的话，那他可能真的爱上你了！
Men are very action motivated, they don't express their feelings verbally. They'd rather make you figure it out on your own. There's nothing wrong with that, as long as he tells you how he feels at the right time.
男生的行动力都很强，他们不会用语言表达情感。他们还是宁愿你自己整明白。这并没有什么问题，只要他们能在恰当的时机真的把这事儿挑明就行了。
Do you ever get butterflies in your stomach when you think about his new motives? You probably feel the same way about him. I know you've heard others say that it takes time for men to love their women. That's true to an extent. Love doesn't hold any boundaries, it comes when you least expect it to. This strong emotion normally comes about 1 year of dating. If you've been with him for only 5 months, then he's infatuated with you.
当想到他的新举动，你是不是也会心里一阵骚动呢？那很可能你俩就是互相看对眼！我知道你也许听过那种说法：男人要花点时间才会真正爱上他们的女人。在一定程度上是对的。爱没有界限，可能你最不期待时它就来了。这种强烈的情感通常会在约会一年之后发生。而如果你跟他在一起只有5个月，那不叫爱，那是迷恋。
The difference between love and infatuation is that love is a more intense feeling. When you're infatuated with someone, your feelings are a bit different. He may feel like he loves you, but he only cares deeply for you. When a man really loves a woman, he'll do anything for her. The main hints he'll throw are very easy to catch.
爱和迷恋的分别就在于爱是更为强烈的情感。而当你迷恋一个人，那是不同的感觉。也许他都觉得自己是爱你的，但他其实只是很关心你而已。当一个男人真的爱上一个女人，他会愿意为她做任何事。而他给的最主要的暗示其实很容易抓到。
1. His body language
肢体语言
If you haven't noticed his body language, pay more attention to it. He'll begin to walk with poise and wrap his arms around you. I know men do this when they don't love a woman, but he'll do it more often if the feelings are there.
如果你还没注意到他的肢体语言，那真是要花点儿心思。走路的时候，他会搂着你的肩——我知道男人不爱你的时候也许也这么干，但如果他爱你，他一定会做的更多。
2. His grin
笑容
He'll look at you with a big smile and the look in his eyes will change. The eyes do all the communicating for you. His facial expression won't go away quickly. Gaze into his eyes and you'll know what I'm talking about.
他会看着你发自内心地笑、并且他眼睛里的神采会跟着变化。眼睛会说明一切，而面部表情甚至都跟不上。看进他的眼睛，你就会知道我在说什么了。
3. Hyperness
潜意识中的行为
If he's the calm type, he'll become more hyperactive around you. I've noticed this in my boyfriend. You'll see this sign if you look closely. Men aren't hard to read, you have to take the time to read them.
如果他本身是很冷静的类型，在你身边他会变得很活跃。我在我男朋友身上看到了这一点。如果你够仔细你就会发现这个。男人其实也不难懂，你只是需要时间慢慢了解他们。
4. The questions he asks you
他问你的问题
This is the first sign you should see! If he started asking a lot of questions about you, he loves you. A man won't ask a woman questions about her if he didn't love her. His level of interest in you is increasing and he can't get enough of you. Doesn't it feel good to be with a man who loves you? The types of questions he asks aren't important. What's important is the topic of his questions.
这是你应该注意到的第一点！如果他开始问许多关于你的问题，那么他就是爱上你了。如果一个男人不爱你，他不会问关于你的问题。他对你的兴趣在增加、听再多也不够。和一个爱你的男人在一起不是很好吗？他具体问你哪种问题不重要，重要的是他问的究竟是什么。
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