恋爱中男人的10个心理秘密
Things men tell their buddies that they don't tell their wives and girlfriends.
1. Yes, it's about sex. Men like sex, men like variety. Men like women that enjoy sex, enjoy variety, and are active partners in sex.
性。男人喜欢性，希望自己的女友也一样喜欢性，希望女人主动。
2. A man is less likely to feel romantic if a woman is making his life miserable. If you want to cuddle, don't start a fight over leaving the toilet seat up or not taking out the garbage, Buzzkill.
男人排斥女人干涉自己的个人习惯，讨厌女人为一点点小事争吵。
3. Men are passionate about the things women hate. In general, when men tell you they don't like cartoons, stoner movies, action movies, motorcycles, South Park, sports, firearms, the Simpsons, and ESPN, etc. they are lying so that they can have sex with you.
男人对女人讨厌的事情很在意。他会为了接近你，而告诉你自己不喜欢你讨厌的东西。
4. Men don't like women's entertainment. I'd rather eat glass than watch Bridget Jones, but I've watched it for sex.
男人不喜欢女人玩的东西，他们宁愿吃玻璃也不愿看肥皂剧。
5. There's only 24 hours in a day. Eight hours of sleep, ten hours at work, two hours commute, 90 minutes at the gym, and 90 minutes cooking, eating, and washing up leaves only one hour each day for "us" or "me" time. Keep your expectations reasonable and share.
不要将男人看的太死。一天只有24个小时，除了8小时睡觉，10小时工作，2小时公交，90分钟健身，90分钟做饭吃饭，洗澡，每天就只有1个小时是我们能在一起的。
6. Women have cold hands, feet, butts, and other body parts. Men are not your personal heaters. Warm them or keep them to yourself.
男人不是电热毯，不要总想着让他们给你暖床。
7. A man's willingness to put up with a women's b.s. is directly proportional to how hot they are. Yes, men will kiss a beautiful women's ass for sex, that doesn't mean you're going to get the same treatment.
男人对女人的付出和女人的魅力成正比的，如果你很美，我会愿意为你做每一件事，反之就难了。
8. When women say they want to sit down and talk, men hear "I'm pissed." You never want to talk about things we like, like sports, so telling us you want to talk sends us the signal that you want to bring up something that's bothering you. You might fool us once in a while by actually wanting to talk about something the other sex is interested in. Men have to, it's called dating.
当女人说我们坐下来好好谈谈的时候，她们是在说“我很生气”。因为女人根本不会和我好好聊我喜欢的体育，所以男人知道女人想找他们的茬了。
9. Men hate dating because we have to lie. Lying isn't fun. We can't wait to be married so we can really tell you how we feel about Bridget Jones. Unless he's a jerk, a man's happiest day is when he no longer has to lie to have sex.
男人讨厌约会。因为他们必须在约会上不停地撒谎。
10. Working out doesn't count unless you sweat. We don't want to hear about how tough your yoga class was if all the girls in class are wearing makeup.
流汗了才是真正地累了。男人不相信女人说累了，因为她们总是划着好好的妆。
