教你如何发起谈话—男孩对女孩篇

1. 寻求意见

1) 聊聊男女关系：

"I need a girl's opinion about something I was just discussing with a friend who broke up with his girlfriend. He made out with another woman straight after his relationship break up. Is he a jerk?"

"I want a woman's perspective on this. I was just talking a friend who had broken up and his girlfriend keeps calling. Why does she do it?"

女人们总是乐于分享自己对于男女关系问题的看法，因此这类问题是向女孩发起谈话的好工具。

2) 问些争议话题：

"Who lies more: men or women?"

"Is it wrong to break up with a text message?"

如果你向一群女人抛出这样的容易引起争议的话题，那你就可以等着看她们两眼放光、叽叽喳喳没完没了了。

2. 玩笑调侃

1) 适当运用搭讪语：

"I play the field, and it looks like I just hit a home run with you."

（顺便来学两个习语：play the field意为“跟很多人交往，与很多人发生感情关系”；home run是全垒打的意思，引申为大获全胜，hit a home run就是说“做某事非常成功”。）

"You're like a dictionary, you add meaning to my life!"

"Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?"

“搭讪语”就是那些故意说出来引起异性注意的话，说得难听点有些类似“泡妞语”，但是运用得当的话也是发起谈话的好办法。当然必须注意要让女孩知道你是在开玩笑，否则可是很有挑逗的意味，会被认为是在耍流氓哒！

2) 轻描淡写开玩笑：

"Nice boots. Do you have your horse parked outside?"（horse boots：马护腿）

"Nice shoes. They look comfortable."（这句小编不理解的说……难道是指看上去舒服其实穿着不舒服？求高手解答！）

"Nice top（上衣）. My grandma has one."

轻微地说些嘲弄的话可以引起女孩发笑，之后你就等着被她反击吧！

3) 问上一句，"Are you friendly?" 记得配合上怀疑的眼光。然后，"Good, I'll talk to you." 放心吧，没有女孩会对你说“不”的！