双语阅读美文：别人对你的看法并不重要

摘录：成功意味着成为最强大的、最全面的版本的自己。为了获得成功,你需要建立你的优点和使你的缺点最小化。你会期待怎么去做如果你太忙了以至于没有时间浪费在考虑他人的观点上?如果你想要成功,你没有多少宝贵的几秒钟来丢弃那些。把重点放在发展自己,而不是发展别人的想法。

1. Nobody Knows You Like Yourself.

People can be arrogant in the fact that they tend to judge a person’s character within second of meeting them. We all generalise, we form assumptions, we create an opinion of people from the first moments of the first interaction, often inaccurate ones. The truth is, despite the lightening-quick opinions people form, nobody knows you like you do. You know your own strengths, your own weaknesses, your likes and dislikes more than anybody else in the world. Yes, people can be quick to judge. Are their perceptions of you at all accurate? It’s unlikely. Don’t concern yourself with them.

没有人比你更了解你自己。

人们是傲慢的,他们倾向于在第一次见面后判断一个人的性格。我们都一样,我们假设,我们创造一个观点从跟别人第一时刻的第一个互动,往往是不准确的。事实是,尽管人们闪电般的创造对于别人的看法,没有人知道你就像你做的一样。你比世界上其他任何人都知道自己的优点,自己的缺点,你的好恶。是的,人们可以快速的判断。他们对你的看法都是准确的吗?这是不太可能的。不要关心他们对你的看法啊。

2. Nobody Likes to Feel Bad About Themselves.

没有人喜欢自我感觉糟糕。

We all like to feel confident and that we lack nothing major in our lives. Since it is often difficult for people to directly face their personal issues head on and get over them, people like to bring others down as a means of feeling more secure about themselves. People who readily form negative opinions are often casting their own insecurities onto others as a means of overshadowing their own. It is admittedly easier, but that doesn’t make it right. It’s often nothing to do with you in the first place.

我们都喜欢自信,我们不缺少什么重要的东西在我们的生活中。因为它们对于人们往往是难以直接面对和克服的个人问题,人们喜欢降低别人来感觉更安全。人容易形成消极的观点，往往会在别人身上铸造自己的不安全感，作为遮蔽自己的一种手段。这固然容易承认,但这并不使它正确。通常是在第一时间与你无关。

3. You’ll Be Forever Walking On Egg Shells.

你会永远走在鸡蛋壳上。

Do you wan’t to live a life of anxiety? A life where the views of others sting you like a wasp every time you hear a negative or insulting remark about yourself? I bet you don’t. If you do, you’ll quickly become a people-pleaser. You’ll be that Mr. Niceguy who gets trampled all over by everyone in fear of offending anyone. Mr. Niceguy on the outside, is Mr. Sadguy on the inside. You’re better than that.

你想过焦虑的生活吗?你喜欢生活在他人的观点里，每次你听到负面或侮辱性的评论关于你自己的情况像被黄蜂刺一样吗?我打赌你不喜欢。如果你这样做,你很快就会成为大家的开心果。你会成为每个人都可以践踏的开心果因为你害怕冒犯任何人。在外面是开心果，里面是悲伤者。你比这更好。

4. They Will Take You Everywhere But Up.

你会到处带它们除了摆脱。

Successful people don’t care deeply about what others think of them. Why? Because there are some terrible people out there, and in order to achieve something great you’ll have to make some of them angry. If on you’re path to success you find that absolutely everybody is agreeing with you, then you’re probably doing it wrong. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. So why not Do.

成功的人不关心别人对他们怎么看。为什么呢?因为有一些可怕的人,如果你实现一些伟大的事你会使他们中的一些人生气。如果在你通往成功的路上发现绝对每个人都赞同你,那你很可能做错了。如果你这样做真该死,如果你不该死呢。为什么不做。

5. You Simply Don’t Have Time.

你根本没有时间。

Success means becoming the strongest, most well-rounded version of yourself possible. In order to achieve success, you’ll have to build upon your strengths and minimise your weaknesses. How can you expect to do that if you’re too busy wasting your time contemplating the views of others? If you want to be successful, you don’t have those precious seconds to throw away. Focus on developing yourself, not developing others’ thoughts.

成功意味着成为最强大的、最全面的版本的自己。为了获得成功,你需要建立你的优点和使你的缺点最小化。你会期待怎么去做如果你太忙了以至于没有时间浪费在考虑他人的观点上?如果你想要成功,你没有多少宝贵的几秒钟来丢弃那些。把重点放在发展自己,而不是发展别人的想法。

6. Confidence Isn’t Rooted In the Thoughts of Others.

信心不是根植于别人的想法。

How many times have you heard a confident person say that they get their confidence from the negative opinions of others? Not many, I bet. It’s usually the contrary. Confidence comes from realising the pettiness and inaccuracy of other people’s negative view of you and then ignoring them. Confident people know exactly what they lack and they get comfortable with it. They don’t need others to do it for them.

你有几次听到一个自信的人说他们从别人的负面意见建立他们的信心?不是很多,我敢打赌。通常是相反的。信心来自于现实中的琐碎和别人对你的消极看法,然后忽视他们。自信的人知道他们缺乏什么,他们熟悉它。他们不需要其他人来为他们做这些。

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