男人具备七点要素才能使自己那个她幸福
Being a guy, I've always been sort of intimidated whenever I've heard people say "you don't know what women want", "no one knows what women want", "understanding women is like rocket science" and so on and so forth. I've always hated the generalization that women are hard to understand, women are just as easy to understand as men. It isn't justified to just label a gender as "hard to understand" just because a few people of the opposite gender find them hard to understand or just because they can't comprehend them. So, for the normal and unbiased people out there, I'm writing about seven things every guy can do to make his woman happy and content.
作为一个男人,当我听到人们说"你不知道女人想要什么","没有人知道女人想要什么","理解女人就像火箭科学"等时，我就会有点害怕。我一直很讨厌这种普遍化，比如理解女人很难，女人跟男人一样很好理解。将不合理的标签"难以理解"来形容一种性别的人，仅仅是因为相反性别的个别人发现他们很难理解，或者仅仅是他们不能理解相反性别的人，这是不公平的。因此,对于普通人和公正之人,我列出了每个男人都能做到的让他的女人快乐和满足的7点要素。
Let's begin:
让我们开始吧：1. Loyalty
1.忠诚
Loyalty is one of the first traits that keep a relationship alive and strong.
忠诚是第一个能保持感情新鲜和强烈的特性。2. Honesty
2.诚实Being honest is one of the easiest ways to a woman's heart. Men, even if you make a mistake, just be honest about it. It's always better to be open and honest about your past and your own individuality. Be honest, it doesn't cost anything and it has a lot of rewards.
诚实是得到女人芳心的最简单办法之一。男人们，即使你们犯了错，只要老实交代即可。对于你的过去和自己的个性，诚实表现出来是很好的办法。诚实，无需任何成本却回报很大。3. Time
3.时间I've said this countless times, "time" is one of the most precious gifts you can give someone. Regardless of how busy your life is, always take proper time out for your woman.
我已经说了很多次，时间是你能给予某人的最好的礼物。不管你的生活有多么繁忙，要经常抽出一定的时间来陪你的爱人。4. Understanding
4.理解After having a lot of arguments with my girlfriend, I finally realized where I was going wrong. Now I finally actually know what she means and when she needs me. True understanding takes a lot of time to achieve but it's well worth the effort.
经过跟我女友多次争吵以后，我最终意识到我哪里错了。现在我才真正体会到当她需要我时是什么意思。5. Be emotional
5.适当的情绪化Women love it when their men show emotions and show them their kinder and softer sides. Be vulnerable in front of your women, you won't be judged, you'll only be loved.
女人很喜欢她的男人在自己面前流露出各种情绪，并表现出他们的温柔的一面。在你的女人面前表现出脆弱的一面，你并不会被否定，只会被深爱。6. Be their strength
6.做她们的后盾A man needs to protect his woman, mentally and physically. Be their strength when they're down, be their strength in their ups and downs.
一个男的要去保护自己的女人，不管是精神上还是身体上。当她们情绪低落时，做她们的后盾，当她们人生有起伏时，做她们的后盾。7. Security
7.安全感The last thing in the list in what women want is "Security". I don't mean that in the literal sense. A man should be secure in his ways, in his future plans and in his financial plans. So men, decide on who you want to be and where you want to be in life. Don't be indecisive.
最后一点我要说的是女人要的是"安全感"。我并不是指字面意思。一个男人应该在他自己走的路，他未来的计划，他的经济计划当中表现出安全感。所以，男士们，要决定自己要成为什么样的人，并决定自己人生道路的前进方向。不要优柔寡断。
