时尚双语:把自己打造完美女友只需八步

Being the Perfect Girlfriend can be quite a challenge. But with patience, It might JUST BE possible. Here are some tips to get you on your way.

Step1

YOU MUST RELAX YOUR STANDARDS. Let down your guard, and don't let etiquette be most important. This means eating like a pig (occasionally), burping, etc. Although things should be cleaned up in the end, the experience will allow you to feel comfortable with each other. That's the first important step.

Step2

DRESS UP SOMETIMES TO FEEL SPECIAL. This obviously is the opposite of step 1. Feel comfortable with each other, but don't get lazy. Dress up, and put effort into it. Look sexy for your man. He will definitely appreciate your effort, feel more attractive, and possibly want to return the gesture by putting more effort towards his appearance as well.

Step3

BE SENSITIVE OF YOUR MAN'S EGO. Although men will seem strong, our ego's can sometimes be delicate. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself through genuine compliments. Let him know you're aware of his efforts to improve certain relationship issues. And most importantly of all, communicate an idea; don't NAG about it.

Step4

ALLOW SPACE. A relationship is important. But so are his friends. He loves you but there are just some things that a friendship with the guys gives to him. So communicate to reach an appropriate agreement, and give him the space to balance out his relationship and friendships.

Step5

LISTEN. Men love to explain things. Sometimes even if you don't understand it all, try to keep an open mind. After all, he should be doing the same for you. These incidents shouldn't last too long, and he will be very grateful that you care enough to hear him completely.

Step6

THE WAY TO A MAN'S HEART IS THROUGH HIS BELLY. Good food is definitely a plus to becoming the perfect girlfriend. So try to make an effort to having a few good recipes. And if you don't know how to cook yet? Have a list of takeout places handy for just such an occasion. It's important because if we get hungry, we pay less attention to you (sorry in advance). So if you prevent us from getting hungry, our attention will be more focused on YOU. (which should be because you're almost the perfect girlfriend)

Step7

OVERTIME STEP: (NOT FOR EVERYONE). Bedroom Etiquette. Be mindful that a man's horny level is always around the same point as a woman's maximum horny point during period week. So now that you understand how we are, be gentle. If you aren't in the mood, gently let your man know IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM (remember that ego). TIP: If you are not prepared for that stage of the relationship yet for whatever reason (religion, age, culture, etc), do not feel pressured to give in. He should/must respect your values.

Step8

Congratulations, You've completed the steps. You are (according to my books) the Perfect Girlfriend. Great job!

成为一个完美女友也许是一个相当有难度的挑战。但是，只有有耐心，就有可能成功。这里有一些帮助你成功的方法。

第一步

你必须放宽你的标准。解除你的武装，不要把礼仪当做最重要的事。这意味着偶尔像猪一样进食、打嗝等等。虽然时候要清理干净，但那种感觉可以让彼此感到舒适。 这就是第一个重要步骤。

第二步

偶尔精心打扮来让自己与众不同。这显然与第一步相反，让两人感到彼此舒适，但不要因此而懒惰。打扮，并且认真准备。为你的男人打扮得性感一些。他一定会感激你的努力，觉得你更加迷人，他很有可能会为了回报而在自己的外表上投入更多精力。

第三步

随时注意他的自尊。虽然男人看起来很强壮，他们的自尊有时会很脆弱。通过真诚的赞美来使你的男友对自己感觉良好。让他了解你知道他的努力来使你们的关系更进一步。最重要的是，交流各自的想法，避免挑剔批评。

第四步

为彼此留出空间。虽然你们的关系很重要，但他和朋友的关系也同样重要。他爱你，但有些东西是只有朋友能给予的。因此，通过沟通来达成适当的协定，给他空间，让他平衡爱情和友情。

第五步

倾听。男人们热衷于解释事物。有时即使你并不完全明白这一切，尽量保持开放的心态。毕竟他也会为你做同样的事。这些小插曲不会持续太久，他将对你足够用心的倾听感激不已。

第六步

抓住男人的胃就能抓住男人的心。美味的食物绝对是成为完美女友的加分。所以，尝试努力拥有几个拿手好菜。如果你不懂烹饪怎么办？那么，为这样的场合准备几个外出就餐的好地方。这很重要，因为一旦我们饿了，就会减少对你的注意（事先说一句抱歉）。因此，如果你能阻止我们的饥饿，我们的注意力将会更加集中在你身上。（谁让你几乎是完美的女友呢）

第七步

附加的一步（不是每个人都适用）。卧室礼仪。需要注意的是，男人的高潮总是在女人达到高潮的前后到来。既然你已经了解了我们的节奏，温柔一些。如果你不在状态，委婉地告诉你的男人，那不是他的原因（记住他的自尊）。小贴士：无论出于何种原因（宗教，年龄，文化，等等）如果你还没有为你们的这一层关系准备好，不要因为有压力就让步。他应该并且必须尊重你的价值观。

第八步

恭喜，你已经完成了所以的步骤。你已经成为完美女友了（根据我的书）。太棒了！