关注社会:宝典:80后想结婚必先做到这10条

结婚是男女关系的最高形式。一般地说，男女之间的爱情都渴望双方肉体的拥有，爱欲的无限让人们很难满足于一时的苟合，那种“只在乎曾经拥有，不在乎天长地久。”的爱情对于两个未婚男女来说是不存在的，爱情的力量、人性的自私、感情的排他，都要求相爱的男女要从身体到心智的长久拥有，他们更渴望的是天长地久，这个时候，结婚就成了拥有心仪之人的最佳实现方式。那么，什么时候该结婚了？先来看看这十条吧！

第一、你们彼此都是对方最好的朋友,不带任何条件的,喜欢与对方在一起。
You are undoubtedly the best friends of each other, an d you like to stay together.

第二、彼此很容易沟通,互相可以很敞开地坦白任何事情,而不必担心被对方怀疑或轻视。
It's easy for you two to communicate, because you don't have to worry about any doubts.

第三、两个人在心灵上有共同的价值观和理念,并且对这些观念有清楚的认只与追求。
You two have similar life views and have a clear understanding to it.

第四 你们都认为婚姻是一辈子的事情.而且双方(特别强调"双方")都坚定地愿意委身在这个长期的婚姻关系中。
You believe that marriage is a lifetime thing. But the two sides (with special emphasis on "both sides") are willing to commit themselves firmly in the long-term marital relationships.

第五、当发生冲突或争执的时候可以一起来解决.而不是等以后才来发作。
When a conflict or dispute occurred, you should work together to solveit rather than wait.

第六、相处可以彼此逗趣.常有欢笑.在生活中许多方面都会以幽默相待。
You can get along with each other funny, with laughter. In many ways, life would be a humorous treatment.

第七、彼此非常了解,并且接纳对方,你知道对方了解你的优点和缺点,仍然确信你是被他所接纳的。
You are very familiar with each other and accept each other, and you know each other's strengths and weaknesses and accept all those.

第八、从认识你,也是你所最信任的人当中,得到支持和肯定。
Get support and recognition from your most trusted person.

第九、有时你们会有浪漫的感情,但绝大多数的时候,你们的相处是非常满足而且自在的。
Sometimes you have romantic feelings, but the vast majority of the time, you get along with each other freely.

第十、你们有一个非常理性、成熟的交往。你们双方都感受到，在许多不同的层面上，你们是很相配的。
You have a very rational and mature contact. You both feel that, in many different levels, you very match.

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