时尚双语:男人都知道不忠是错误的
“When men cheat, it basically means that they are looking for something their girlfriend or wife is not providing. Often times, it comes down to sex.” Well, partially true but there must be More to it than that. “…ting is disrespectful towards the person you’ve cheated on, but at the very least, it has two beneficial aspects to it.
First, that you’ll realize your mistake and appreciate your lover a lot more after the horrible deed. The second is that cheating can help you realize your misery within your current relationship, and will likely give you that necessary shove to move on and stop wasting both your lover’s and your own time.”
So why do some men cheat in relationships? Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Men will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Apparently not always.
Women do have great understanding about men. But there is a part of men that they do not completely understand. Why in the world would he cheat on me, this seems to be a question that crosses the minds of women who are cheated on.
Possibly the area of the problem could be commitment. Even being married, some men will not fully commit themselves to the spouse. Not only in outward areas of his life but mostly inside. So not being truthful in a sense it will cause men to stray to look for a more comfortable relationship.
Being unsatisfied and feeling less stimulated by the current relationship is sometimes a problem. A crisis of bringing back the old days could pin point this problem. Wanting to feel younger and forget the daily grind brings upon him pressure and causes men to cheat.
Some men cheat because they are too afraid to give up their current relationship because of financial reasons. They would rather cheat and have the new relationship also, rather than loose out on their financial status in life. Knowing that divorce could lead to dividing everything and stripping the budget, they would rather take the chance cheating.
Some also like the excitement of having a secret affair, which is way out of line. These kind of games can be costly to the cheating spouse,but the rush that they get from this is worth the risk for some. They continue to cheat on their wife or girlfriend, because they are sure they can get away with it.
There are other reasons why men cheat is because they do not take their marriage or relationship serious. This could be that they feel like their spouse or girlfriend, is not smart enough to figure them out.
Most men cheat because of a bored relationship,and most men are single minded and do not realize the consequences of their actions.
“当男人欺骗时，基本上意味着他们在寻找一些女朋友或妻子不赞同的东西。经常是与性有关的。”这里部分是正确的，但还有更多原因。“......欺骗是对对方的不尊重，但至少它也有两方面的好处。
首先，你会意识到你的错误，在那些行为发生后更加感激你的爱人。第二，欺骗会帮助你在现有的关系中意识到你的痛苦，很有可能让你放弃，继续前进，不浪费你和你爱人的时间。”
为什么一些男人要欺骗感情？几乎所有的男人都知道欺骗是错误的，然而他们很多人还是那样做。男人会将欺骗责怪于他们的基因和生理需求。然而，我们不应该比黑猩猩更高级吗？难道我们不能通过自己的思想和意识来控制身体吗？很显然，并不总是那样的。
女人确实很了解男人。但有一部分男人她们不能完全理解为什么他会对我不忠，这个似乎是被欺骗了的女人心中的疑惑。
这个问题或许跟承诺有关。即使结婚了，一些男人也不会对另一半完全信守承诺。并不只是在外表，还有内心。因此，不能太真实，它会让男人迷茫而寻找更舒适的关系。
对现在的关系觉得不满足，缺乏刺激感，有时是个问题。在这个紧要关头，让人感觉回到过去可以解决这个问题。想要变得更年轻，忘记日常工作带给他的压力导致他开始欺骗。一些男人欺骗是因为他们很害怕因为财政问题而放弃现在的关系。他们宁愿欺骗，开始另一段新感情，也不要让人知道他们的财政状况。知道离婚可以掩盖任何事情，也不用预算，他们宁愿欺骗。
一些男人对婚外恋很兴奋。这样的游戏要付出很多，但从中获得的东西使得他们愿意冒险。他们继续欺骗妻子或女朋友，是因为他们很肯定能解决这些问题。
还有其他原因，他们并不把婚姻或关系当成一回事。这可能是因为他们觉得自己的妻子或女朋友不够聪明，没能看懂他们。
大多数男人背叛是因为厌烦了这个关系，他们一意孤行，没有意识到他们这些行动的结果。
